I'm sick of the courtship rabble. I grew up with it, went through it. I'm done with it. This guys is spot on. Read it. Read it now. Patriarchy is flawed and hurts more people than it helps. The end.
http://www.thomasumstattd.com/2014/08/courtship-fundamentally-flawed/
http://www.thomasumstattd.com/2014/08/courtship-fundamentally-flawed/